11:26PM
Up with a migraine. So, I thought I’d stop here and post a little e-mail transaction that I had with my IVF nurse earlier today. Here’s the set-up: had my first beta yesterday. They don’t give you the results since it’s such an early one (6dp5dt). I was getting cold feet about the second beta tomorrow, so I shot nurse Peggy this e-mail:
Hi Peggy!
Boy am I getting nervous about my beta tomorrow. Ack. I have to work until 8pm tomorrow evening, and I think waiting for a phone call will just make me crazy and a really TERRIBLE therapist for my clients, so I would like for you to send me an e-mail instead if that is possible. That way I can check it together with my husband once I’m home from work.
Is that possible?
Eve
So, I think I’m just going to get a ‘will do’ type response. Imagine my surprise when she writes this back…
OK Eve, lightening is going to strike me, but your first beta was 41!! That is an awesome first number. Now, you need to behave yourself—we need that number to at least double—so I will email you as soon as I receive it. Congratulations!!
Peggy R.
Clinical Coordinator
So I read and re-read that e-mail, in complete and utter shock that what I think nurse Peggy told me is that I’m pregnant! What? I had thoroughly prepared myself for a beta of zero, zilch, nada, nothing. And then I sat there in disbelief for awhile. And then I called my hubby at work and rambled on about the e-mail and the number and thoroughly confused my hubby until I had to shout out, “I’m pregnant!”.
Well, there you go. Pregnant for today at least.
I go for beta #2 at 8AM tomorrow morning. I should get the results a few hours after that. Trying to not let my mind wander too far ahead and the many plausible positive AND negative scenarios.
Just happy to be pregnant, despite a migraine, for tonight.
Holy sheep. Who knew?


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August 19, 2009 at 11:07 pm
Serendipity
congratulations, I’m keeping everything crossed that tomorrow brings fantastic doubling numbers for you.
August 20, 2009 at 2:28 am
babysmiling
Oh my goodness gracious, hooray! That is quite an email indeed. Hopefully it’s one that you’ll end up pasting in a baby book eventually.
Good luck tomorrow!!!
August 20, 2009 at 4:34 am
Queenie
Eve, this is the best post EVER. Good luck today with the beta. I hope you get more fabulous news.
August 20, 2009 at 5:43 am
Melissa
woot!!!! Praying for a strong 2nd beta!!!
August 20, 2009 at 6:01 am
Amy on SK
OMG OMG OMG
Congrats Eve!!! I am praying for a super high beta tomorrow so you can know, “Yes I am Pregnant”!!!!
I hope that migrane gets better and you can just enjoy your news!!!
August 20, 2009 at 6:03 am
Amanda
Holy Sheep is right! Well, it’s still early, but it sounds very promising at this point! Oh wow, now you really won’t be able to concentrate on anything.
August 20, 2009 at 6:04 am
Mrs. Gamgee
Oh Eve! I am so happy for you! I know that this is still a PUPO situation, but I am happy nonetheless!
Sending prayers for peace for your heart, focus for your work, and a good strong beta!
August 20, 2009 at 6:23 am
Cheryllookingforward
Sending you wonderful thoughts for a great beta number today!
August 20, 2009 at 6:41 am
Jenn
Eve….Congrats!! I was in tears reading your post!!! I will say an extra prayer for doubling betas!
You are preggers!! WOOHOO!!!
HUGS
August 20, 2009 at 7:04 am
birdless
Wow! That is like the best email EVER!!! Congrats!
August 20, 2009 at 7:26 am
Heather
Eve, I am soooo happy for you!!! Heather (SK-BIS)
August 20, 2009 at 7:44 am
Optimistically Hopeful
OMG! What fantastic news! 41 at 11DPO is a great number and I hope it doubles appropriately for you! I’ll be thinking of you today and hoping for nice high numbers today. Congrats!
August 20, 2009 at 7:46 am
Lucy
what a great email! so nice of her to share despite their policy! thinking doubling thoughts for you!
August 20, 2009 at 7:55 am
Ann Z
Whoo-hoo!!! I can’t think of anything else to add. Whoo-hoo!! Now I’ll be obsessively checking for your update today.
August 20, 2009 at 8:03 am
Amy
WOOHOO!!!!!! That’s awesome, Eve!!!!! Congrats!!!!! You have to start somewhere and 41 sounds like the perfect place!!!! Can’t wait to see what today’s numbers are!!!!!!
August 20, 2009 at 8:18 am
c by the Sea
YAY! YAY! YAY! So exciting! I’m sending lots of good juju for doubling numbers
and I’m hoping some of this prego energy rubs off on me soon, FET is a week from Monday…
August 20, 2009 at 8:30 am
Ali
Saying another prayer that they double today…at the very least. Stick bean(s) stick!
August 20, 2009 at 8:38 am
Kellie
I know you will of course call the all the appropriate people to announce the big news…but I’ll be holding my breathe until you get to post the news. Regardless of the results. Imagine all of us girls across America spending the day crossing our toes, fingers, legs, and whatever else we can cross and a few of us holding our breathe. : )
Thinking about you!!
K
August 20, 2009 at 8:38 am
Melissa Griffin
OMG!!!!!!!!!
COngratulations!
That is wonderful news!
Cant wait to hear how it progressess!!!
August 20, 2009 at 9:01 am
Shannon
YESSSSS I knew it!!! What an awesome number for a beta so early, I can’t wait to hear the repeat numbers- I am so happy for you!!!
August 20, 2009 at 10:10 am
Melissa G
Congratulations!!!!!!!!! That is fantastic!!!
August 20, 2009 at 10:17 am
Sunny
That is WONDERFUL! Congratulations Eve!
August 20, 2009 at 10:37 am
drmkg74
YAY that is the best news! I will everything crossed for your next beta! I can’t wait to hear!
August 20, 2009 at 10:44 am
Chickenpig
Congratulations!!! Not bad at all! With my baby girl my first beta 11dp3dt was only 40. My second beta was only 65…and now she’s a year old.
Anything above a 25 means you’re pregnant for now anyway, which is a whole lot better than the alternative. Yeeeehaa!!!!!
August 20, 2009 at 11:17 am
Mrs. Hammer
Yeah! Congratulations!!!!
August 21, 2009 at 10:34 am
Deborah
Over from L&F. Congratulations!!!
August 21, 2009 at 12:07 pm
Alexicographer
I came over from LFCA. 41 is indeed a great number for so early … I have to struggle a bit to do the math, but the IVF that became my son wouldn’t have had a beta that high until about 11dp3dt (his was 123 at 14dp3dt and went on to become a boringly uneventful full-term pregnancy). Congratulations, and here’s to great doubling!
August 23, 2009 at 8:42 am
Gabby
FOUND you from LFCA! SOOO excited about your first beta. That is a very very nice number! take it easy on yourself and your baby.. and here’s hoping for at least 82 on tomorrow’s beta. tell us asap.. the blogosphere needs to know!
August 26, 2009 at 9:13 am
Kimbosue
YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
August 27, 2009 at 7:24 pm
Alana-isms
Oooooh! I’ve been behind on blogging due to back-to-school hubub. SOOOOO thrilled for you and your BFP. MUCH congrats!